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fuckyeahbipolarowl:

Welcome to Wellness Wednesday 

This week’s topic is Comfort Boxes

-What is a comfort box

A comfort box is a very easy form of at home therapy / self care that is pretty basic to put together. All you need is a box (or bag) and somethings that you love. The idea is that you have this wonderful things that make you happy gathered in one place and when you need it, it’s all right there for you. 

-What do I put in a comfort box

Anything that has a positive influence on the way you think! Ideas include, but are no means limited to,:

crayons and some coloring pages

a positive book, poem, comic, etc. 

your favorite smell good items

a journal

a favorite CD

a sweet letter from a loved one or from yourself to yourself

things that remind you of your positive accomplishments 

-Why is a comfort box is a good idea for mental health wellness

Having an easy to reach group of items that make you happy is always a good idea. If you’re like me, you might get frustrated pretty easily and frustration might set in faster if you’re already experiencing an intense mood such as anxiety or depression, if I need one of these things that I know will help calm me down and for whatever reason I can’t find it, it’s only going to make the situation worse, having them in a safe place makes getting to my “happy place” that much easier. 

When you’re experiencing an intense mood and you need to calm yourself, a distraction is the best place to start, for some of us, we turn to negative distractions, usually because they are the first to come to mind and easiest to access. Having a comfort box changes this, now your easiest distraction is full of positive options. 

-What’s in your comfort box

My comfort box itself just makes me happy because I love Marvel and I was so happy to find this empty Marvel shoe box. Inside the box are:

An 11th Doctor Hello Kitty that my Aunt made for me Christmas before Last. 

A pack of Crayons 

A rustic looking set of playing cards that I use to play solitaire or just shuffle and organize over again as a quick distraction. 

"Bali Sunrise" soy candle from Target 

Sinful Colors nail polish in “Midnight Blue” (when it’s on it’s TARDIS blue) 

Solana Beach body cream from Hollister 

And last but not least, the paper version of my license. Having my drivers license and being able to comfortably drive a car by myself is something I never thought I would achieve. Some of my worst anxiety driven fears involve cars. I was 21 before I had my license and it took three tries, but I keep that paper as a reminder that I am stronger than I know and my fears can be conquered. 

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thecsph:

Abortion Funds like WHEF fill a vital health care gap by helping women get the health care they want and need. We believe that every woman should have the right to shape her own life and the right to care for herself and her family with dignity.

April 27th, 2014
3-6 PM
Town Hall Lanes, Johnston RI
 
The minimum ticket price is $45; prizes will be awarded to the largest fundraisers.
naamahdarling:

lalondes:

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE DON’T SCROLL PAST THIS.
Scarleteen is a vital queer and trans positive sexual health resource. Their staff do an amazing job of creating really comprehensive and helpful articles on literally every sexual topic you can imagine. They also provide live chats, advice columns, moderated discussion forums, and SMS-based peer support. This site has helped me on countless occasions, and I refer at-risk queer and trans kids to this site every single day.
Scarleteen is invaluable.
And Scarleteen needs your help.
During their annual donation drive this year, the site was only able to raise $1,500. Only fifty people out of Scarleteen’s 350,000 unique monthly visitors contributed to the fundraising drive.
This means that unless Scarleteen sees a stable, sustained, 50% increase in donations, the site will essentially be forced to go dark on May 1. No more new content, no more advice columns, no more forums, no more live chat, no more SMS support. 
This is devastating.
If Scarleteen goes dark, millions of young people, vulnerable queer and trans teens among them, will lose access to essential, fundamental sexual health resources. We cannot let this happen.
Please, please, please donate to Scarleteen. Consider making a recurring monthly contribution if you feel that this is within your means. Even $5 or $10 a month will go a long way to helping this very, very deserving organization.
And whether or not you’re able to donate at this time, please signal boost this and spread the word. Scarleteen does incredible, very necessary work, and they need our help.

This place does amazing, important work, and they are well worth supporting.  Sex ed in this country is a sick joke, and sites like this are having to take up the slack, run on donations from people like us who actually want the next generation to have happy, fulfilling, safe lives full of as much or as little sex as they want.
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naamahdarling:

lalondes:

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE DON’T SCROLL PAST THIS.

Scarleteen is a vital queer and trans positive sexual health resource. Their staff do an amazing job of creating really comprehensive and helpful articles on literally every sexual topic you can imagine. They also provide live chats, advice columns, moderated discussion forums, and SMS-based peer support. This site has helped me on countless occasions, and I refer at-risk queer and trans kids to this site every single day.

Scarleteen is invaluable.

And Scarleteen needs your help.

During their annual donation drive this year, the site was only able to raise $1,500. Only fifty people out of Scarleteen’s 350,000 unique monthly visitors contributed to the fundraising drive.

This means that unless Scarleteen sees a stable, sustained, 50% increase in donations, the site will essentially be forced to go dark on May 1. No more new content, no more advice columns, no more forums, no more live chat, no more SMS support. 

This is devastating.

If Scarleteen goes dark, millions of young people, vulnerable queer and trans teens among them, will lose access to essential, fundamental sexual health resources. We cannot let this happen.

Please, please, please donate to Scarleteen. Consider making a recurring monthly contribution if you feel that this is within your means. Even $5 or $10 a month will go a long way to helping this very, very deserving organization.

And whether or not you’re able to donate at this time, please signal boost this and spread the word. Scarleteen does incredible, very necessary work, and they need our help.

This place does amazing, important work, and they are well worth supporting.  Sex ed in this country is a sick joke, and sites like this are having to take up the slack, run on donations from people like us who actually want the next generation to have happy, fulfilling, safe lives full of as much or as little sex as they want.

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When you’re a trans woman you are made to walk this very fine line, where if you act feminine you are accused of being a parody and if you act masculine, it is seen as a sign of your true male identity. And if you act sweet and demure, you’re accused of reinforcing patriarchal ideas of female passivity, but if you stand up for your own rights and make your voice heard, then you are dismissed as wielding male privilege and entitlement. We trans women are made to teeter on this tightrope, not because we are transsexuals, but because we are women. This is the same double bind that forces teenage girls to negotiate their way between virgin and whore, that forces female politicians and business women to be aggressive without being seen as a bitch, and to be feminine enough not to emasculate their alpha male colleagues, without being so girly as to undermine their own authority.

Julia Serano, Excluded: Making Feminist and Queer Movements More Inclusive, p 28-9 (via bisexual-books)

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bebinn:

[A] common message spread about teenage pregnancy is that children born to teenage parents are more likely to become teenage parents…However, there has yet to be a collective acknowledgment that without supporting the parents now, we are failing the children of teen parents and by extension maintaining an environment where these children can experience an unintended pregnancy just as their parents did.

Building support systems for education, health care, housing, child care, and career services, as well as comprehensive sex education, will go so much farther than our current framework of shame and scare tactics!

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Call For Submissions: Due By April 16th!

Attention all local humans: Do you have a sticky story? Submit it now to participate in the CSPH’s Spring event, Sticky Stories: Sexual Confessions & Awkward Adventures! 

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Call For Submissions: Due By April 16th!

Attention all local humans: Do you have a sticky story? Submit it now to participate in the CSPH’s Spring event, Sticky Stories: Sexual Confessions & Awkward Adventures!

The event will happen on May 9th!

that-crazy-girl-from-wisconsin:

classysassyrepublican:

Turn on the app If you feel unsafe hold your finger on the screen. Once arrived to a safe location, enter your code. If your finger leaves the screen without entering the code law enforcement is notified and your location is tracked through your phone.

reblogging bc this seems really useful
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that-crazy-girl-from-wisconsin:

classysassyrepublican:

Turn on the app If you feel unsafe hold your finger on the screen. Once arrived to a safe location, enter your code. If your finger leaves the screen without entering the code law enforcement is notified and your location is tracked through your phone.

reblogging bc this seems really useful

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Hello there. The following is an incomplete list of Domestic Violence shelters for Queer and Trans* People of Color in all 50 United States. This list will also contain reading resources with tools for addressing abuse and domestic violence in queer communities.

March of Tigers - QPoC Domestic Violence Resources and Literature

Signal boosting this project that March of Tigers is leading. I won’t reblog the whole list because (luckily) it’s huge but do click through the link and check it out. Also, support March of Tigers by either further helping spread awareness of this resource or by contributing with further data.

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bu-qcollective:

BREAKING THE SILENCE WEEK
MONDAY, APRIL 7th: Film screening and discussion of “Ma Vie En Rose” This movie depicts a snapshot of 7 year-old Ludovic’s life as she searches for acceptance of her transgender identity within a heternormative and cissexist society. 
This movie has a happy ending, though, we promise! Trigger warnings for: homophobia, transphobia, bullying, physical abuse, suicide attempt, mental and emotional abuseHOSTED BY: Trans* Listening CircleWHEN: 7:00 - 9:15 PMWHERE: The Center for Gender, Sexuality, and Activism (Basement of 775 Commonwealth Avenue)Event Page: Breaking the Silence: Trans* Listening Circle’s Screening of “Ma Vie en Rose”
Tweet @buqcollective during this week’s events using #BUBTSW
We hope to see you at this amazing event! What will YOU do to break the silence?
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bu-qcollective:

BREAKING THE SILENCE WEEK

MONDAY, APRIL 7th: Film screening and discussion of “Ma Vie En Rose” 

This movie depicts a snapshot of 7 year-old Ludovic’s life as she searches for acceptance of her transgender identity within a heternormative and cissexist society. 

This movie has a happy ending, though, we promise! 

Trigger warnings for: homophobia, transphobia, bullying, physical abuse, suicide attempt, mental and emotional abuse

HOSTED BY: Trans* Listening Circle
WHEN: 7:00 - 9:15 PM
WHERE: The Center for Gender, Sexuality, and Activism (Basement of 775 Commonwealth Avenue)
Event Page: Breaking the Silence: Trans* Listening Circle’s Screening of “Ma Vie en Rose”

Tweet @buqcollective during this week’s events using #BUBTSW

We hope to see you at this amazing event! 
What will YOU do to break the silence?